G & Pacer2, I'm glad you're friends and on some subjects we all don't disagree. Whether we're men or woman, I assume we're adults.
You think repeating the same thing about the same person, who apparently is not here over and over and over is a smart, funny, necessary thing.
Angry, mean, vengeful, defensive, offensive.... who is not here at times, some are not ever, but it happens.
The proverbial "beating a dead horse" is not any of us because we do it in writing here not in our head.
You're not damaged people, Scrape the Paint too, you're not either.