You were trying to have your cake and eat it too. You conveniently only mentioned Andrew and his side of things while neglecting my side. I gave you the Dougie example. There are 2 sides of myself also.
Why do I have to 'accept blame' for this? Because you said so? I post things. It's not my fault Andrew can't handle his emotions and responds the way we does. I just send it back to him like he sends it to me! It seems drew has a problem with this! I just respond in kind when he does. Nothing more, nothing less! Andrew should be taking as much blame as me! Nice try by trying to put this on me and me alone!
Maybe you can mediate a 'peace deal' between us! I'm game if both of you are!
That is your choice and I respect that!
By responding, which nobody forces you to do it makes you an equal partner whether you agree or not.
I'm not involved in your war of words, just looking at it as a neutral observer.
Peace deals may last a day or two until one of you gets bored then you're back to square one.