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What’s it like agreeing with someone whose dementia is getting worse?This doesn’t bode well for you!You obviously don't understand sarcastic humor, and where did I say I was agreeing with him? You called me out for putting words in your mouth earlier, well I'm returning the favor for you if that bodes well for you.
Quote from: rainman2 on September 25, 2026, 09:21:39 PMWhat’s it like agreeing with someone whose dementia is getting worse?This doesn’t bode well for you!You obviously don't understand sarcastic humor, and where did I say I was agreeing with him? You called me out for putting words in your mouth earlier, well I'm returning the favor for you if that bodes well for you.Sorry I don't when you continually tell me I am wrong all the time in the Andrew/Rainman scenario here on plop!Thanks for posting.
What I've told you several times is, you're an equal partner in your feud with Andrew, meaning you're a 50% contributor. Unfortunately, you refuse to accept it and deflect and make excuses such as, if he learned how to banter properly, which is your go to one.Even people like LUC Park have told you to knock it off on several occasions, the latest time being yesterday. Naturally you went on the defensive and said, why point the finger at me like you're totally innocent and it's all Andrew's fault.One last thing, repeatedly telling someone their dementia is getting worse is not only rude but ignorant, but I'm sure you'll disagree and explain why it isn't.
The only thing I'm calling you out for is not accepting responsibility for your equal part in your ar of words with Andrew. It's crystal clear to everyone except you, but it doesn't surprise me.I'll admit Andrew is more vile than you but it's nothing compared to the language that goes on daily on the Harness Forum. You say if Andrew stops it doesn't go back and forth anymore, that is a 2-way street, no one forces you to respond, you choose too because both of you have to get your parting shots in. I also believe you take what's said on here by anybody not just Andrew more seriously and personal. I don't like some of the things that are said on this website or the vulgar language and personal attacks, but it doesn't bother me and I just ignore it.
The only thing I'm calling you out for is not accepting responsibility for your equal part in your war of words with Andrew. It's crystal clear to everyone except you, but it doesn't surprise me.I'll admit Andrew is more vile than you but it's nothing compared to the language that goes on daily on the Harness Forum. You say if Andrew stops it doesn't go back and forth anymore, that is a 2-way street, no one forces you to respond, you choose too because both of you have to get your parting shots in. I also believe you take what's said on here by anybody not just Andrew more seriously and personal. I don't like some of the things that are said on this website or the vulgar language and personal attacks, but it doesn't bother me and I just ignore it.
Just one point which you don't get. When two people like you and Andrew go back and forth like you have for months, it's not a one-sided argument because both of you are participating. Once you start responding to him, you become a participant no matter who started it and how vile he might be. Nobody wants to be bullied, I get it, but when you fight back by responding like you do it makes you an equal contributor.Let's say you're back in school and a kid is pushing you around and throws the first punch, your options are to fight back or walk away. When you fight back and the principal catches you and suspends both of you for fighting, and you say, it isn't fair because he started it, I was just defending myself. This is exactly what you and Andrew do. I'm done explaining this to you and have wasted enough of my time so carry on.
Sorry I disagree with your assessment of things!We agree to disagree here. Sorry Andrew is not going to ‘BULLY’ me, blatantly “LIE” about things etc.Do you understand this?If Andrew could banter in a constructive way, there wouldn’t be any issues here! Don’t blame me for his problems! It’s as simple as that!Welcome to horseplop!It isn’t a popularity contest!Thank you for your concerns.
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