i will agree that that situation did not warrant anyone getting shot let alone killed
i will also agree that if some guy with a gun pointed at you tells you to do something you best do it and sort it out later
her and her wife were not there by happenstance, that's why the other wife was filming it
problem is these special interest groups ( lgbtq etc as one)assume they are untouchable, no one will touch them for fear of blow back etc , think those days are gone