The world of "entitlement" is a bitch....meaning everything handed to you instead of you being a self - made man........if he had to pay for his own rehab and had to go hungry because no one was there to pick up the pieces maybe , just maybe , it would sink in and he would get some serious help and have a great sponsor....not people that enable his dope addict behavior.End of story...this has been going on for 25 years.