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Harness Racing / Re: How is the handle so high?
« Last post by davenchop on Today at 02:49:25 PM »
total wagering is down 5% so far this year but when you get all your money from
 the casino who cares what you do.. you are going to get the same amount no matter what
as many have stated its all welfare money but its been going on for over 25 years and will prob go on for
another 25 .. so the point is irrelevant
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Harness Racing / Re: Race 5 Mohawk
« Last post by davenchop on Today at 02:45:20 PM »
i had a $100 pik 4 that was paying $10,000 for .50c

nothing like a horse player for made up stories  ngc3
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Harness Racing / Re: SCM has been in the shame and rage cycle
« Last post by bello on Today at 02:42:33 PM »
Thanks Professor
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Harness Racing / Re: Yonkers purses going up 15% go figure!
« Last post by wiseowl on Today at 02:39:14 PM »
Yes bigger purses the better for every one that races these jerk that complain are just jerks.
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Harness Racing / Re: No MAS IZZY
« Last post by MR.DALRAE on Today at 02:37:39 PM »
This Josh must be one busy guy
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Harness Racing / SCM has been in the shame and rage cycle
« Last post by smokingjoe on Today at 02:32:09 PM »
To begin, I hope it's obvious to many that SCM is a true narcissist.

It's been interesting to follow his pattern in what we call a "shame and rage cycle.

 It is when a narcissist becomes activated by something that someone says, or if someone does better than them, has something that they want or simply refuses to be used, the narcissist experiences two emotions; shame and then rage. The rage manifests as vindictiveness, retaliation and punishment because they want their perceived perpetrator to feel as bad as them.

Shame is a universal emotion, which you do not have to be a narcissist to experience. Shame is a public emotion, based on the fear that we will be “seen” if the uncomfortable parts of ourselves are exposed to the world and consequently rejected for our deficits and vulnerabilities.   When we don’t process our shame (some of which is carried from early childhood), it turns into negative emotional states that can plague us throughout our lives.  Shame harms us from the outside in as well as the inside out.  Narcissists get into a cycle of anger when their shame is triggered and instead of dealing with the feelings, they just get angry at the person who evoked the feelings in them.  They blame the other person and project the feelings that they cannot tolerate onto the other or they fully discard them. Why?  They want to get ahead of being discarded themselves now that their shameful parts are public.

Over time, the narcissistic person chronically starts to rage at those who evoke their feelings of shame.  Rage isn’t good, and for the most part, people do not react well to being raged at or on the receiving end of vile and disproportionate behavior. So now the narcissist gets stuck in a cycle of feeling shame, lashing out with rage, which results in feeling more shame, which results in lashing out with more rage…do you see where this is going?  Nowhere good, that’s for sure.

Most narcissistic rage has a shame-based origin and because of this, the whole world can feel like one big, shame-inducing threat. Therefore, narcissists employ a range of approaches to defend against this,  such as grandiosity and entitlement, but these do not always work. In other words, the narcissist’s fear of being found out means that they are constantly at risk of shame. 

It is impossible to have a healthy, authentic relationship in the long term with the narcissist because you never know what will trigger their shame. In most cases,  what will trigger them has nothing to do with you.  They just take it out on you.  For example, it may happen if you succeed where they cannot.  As you can see over these many months, SCM has had the most troubles with people with successful careers, professions, etc.

I actually feel sorry for him because he has real talent in some areas and can be comical at times.

The sad news in all this is, it almost never ends well for his type. I'm hoping he's the exception, not the rule.
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Harness Racing / Re: Yonkers purses going up 15% go figure!
« Last post by MOHAWK FREAK on Today at 02:21:20 PM »
I don’t understand all the negativity. I really don’t. 
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What a bunch of dummies on this site.

Legal Larry K aka as larrybirdboy...ak a  Law and Order makes a totally bullshit post and you all chime in.

All of his posts are untrue.

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Harness Racing / Re: No MAS IZZY
« Last post by MIKE CAMPBELL on Today at 02:14:08 PM »
Funny how people think Pena was the brains. He was a beard
Another Josh Marks fan.
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Harness Racing / Re: Driver fined for not whipping! WTF!
« Last post by MIKE CAMPBELL on Today at 02:11:44 PM »
I saw it live. I had Justins horse. Horse was trying to wait on horses most of the mile. Justin just got frustrated that the horse was unresponsive. He cost nobody any money. Horse was beat when he tossed the whip. I had no problem with what he did at the time. Showed his competitive instincts. Fine was ridiculous. Mush worse shit goes on there,

Keep up the good work Justin!
Just another example of a piece of shit millennial that thinks rules don't apply to him. Penalty wasn't harsh enough. Should have been fined 10g's and suspended for 6 months.
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